what makes a person bisexual? i look at girls alot and think they are hot but why do I think of gay sex alot?
Question: I am 39 and have sex little gay since I was 15 but sometimes think straight sex too. I have girls and some ruminating was gay for some reason. I watched gay porn before and I found it arouses. I've even been with a guy and found that sexually arouse.
Answer: Maybe you think being a woman is more socially acceptable and you may very well just be gay. Have you ever tried a relationship with another male? If not, why? Are you afraid of being judged or you do not feel it's something you want to do?

As psychologist John Michael Bailey of Northwestern University told me in an email, “The ruling 'I choose to prefer sex with women to sex with men' is meaningless. Schopenhauer wrote: 'Man can do what he wants, but he cannot hope for what he wants,'” he ...

